Why do good girls.. keep going back to bad guys.
My homegirl MIE posted a question of the day asking the age old question on her fb video blog.. I usually blog remotely through my cell phone so I can't watch all the videos but every now and then I click and watch....
It's an attractedness some sort of magnetism; bad boys offer something to good girls that they can't find anywhere else. It's the thrill the excitement of the arguments; the back and forth of an emotional rollercoaster that forces us to feel like DAMN I can't get this guy out of my head.
He's the one that cheats on you, breaks every promise he ever made; especially the one about him never doing it again. You catch him cheating you go through his phone, his facebook and his myspace. And at the end of the day.. You're still there. He has your heart and you have a weak spot for him..
The age old question why do good girls like bad guys it's simple; they want the ideal of a bad boy without actually having dealt with the repercussions and consequences of having him. Every woman wants a bad guy until the breaking point when she's fed up and on a quest for a great man.
I honestly believe that women need to get cheated on dogged out and every heart broken down to the point of no return so they can realize there are great men out there. They've been with great men and they probably scarred the great men they had in their life because he was too passive; he didn't like to argue or he just wasn't man enough..
Words of encouragement and empowerment to all women as cliche as this may sound don't allow your situation to linger to the point of no return; if you predict a bad situation it probably is a bad situation; and against your heart in favor of your better judgement.. abandon ship!
ques&&comms?
It's an attractedness some sort of magnetism; bad boys offer something to good girls that they can't find anywhere else. It's the thrill the excitement of the arguments; the back and forth of an emotional rollercoaster that forces us to feel like DAMN I can't get this guy out of my head.
He's the one that cheats on you, breaks every promise he ever made; especially the one about him never doing it again. You catch him cheating you go through his phone, his facebook and his myspace. And at the end of the day.. You're still there. He has your heart and you have a weak spot for him..
The age old question why do good girls like bad guys it's simple; they want the ideal of a bad boy without actually having dealt with the repercussions and consequences of having him. Every woman wants a bad guy until the breaking point when she's fed up and on a quest for a great man.
I honestly believe that women need to get cheated on dogged out and every heart broken down to the point of no return so they can realize there are great men out there. They've been with great men and they probably scarred the great men they had in their life because he was too passive; he didn't like to argue or he just wasn't man enough..
Words of encouragement and empowerment to all women as cliche as this may sound don't allow your situation to linger to the point of no return; if you predict a bad situation it probably is a bad situation; and against your heart in favor of your better judgement.. abandon ship!
ques&&comms?
Posted by rana at 8/22/2009 12:45 PM 
Categories: worldly shit
Tags: why do good girls like bad guys relationships women advice cheating
Categories: worldly shit
Tags: why do good girls like bad guys relationships women advice cheating
That's the truth seems like women always go for the guys they have been warned about. It can be their closest friend or someone the hardly know that warns them but they still do as they please. Its like they want to be treated like shit. Crazy how it works because when the one that treats them like shit breaks their heart they say y can't I meet one whose different. But they treat the good one like shit just cuz he was too nice and dey walk over him.
Crazy how it works
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